{"id":5901,"date":"2018-07-27T11:34:17","date_gmt":"2018-07-27T10:34:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/duncanshelley.com\/?p=5901"},"modified":"2018-07-27T11:34:17","modified_gmt":"2018-07-27T10:34:17","slug":"emberi-jatszmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duncanshelley.com\/en\/emberi-jatszmak\/","title":{"rendered":"Emberi j\u00e1tszm\u00e1k"},"content":{"rendered":"

Minden rosszban van valami j\u00f3. Pontosan ez a baj a rosszal: hogy van benne valami j\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u00c1ltal\u00e1ban \u00fagy \u00e9rtelmezz\u00fck a rosszban l\u00e9v\u0151 j\u00f3t, hogy az valamilyen \u00e9rt\u00e9k, ha m\u00e1s nem, tapasztalat, ami b\u00f6lcsebb\u00e9 vagy er\u0151sebb\u00e9 tesz.<\/p>\n

Val\u00f3j\u00e1ban sokkal s\u00falyosabb a helyzet. A rosszat az\u00e9rt fogadjuk el, az\u00e9rt tartjuk meg, az\u00e9rt ragaszkodunk hozz\u00e1, mert van benne valami j\u00f3. A rossz ez\u00e9rt telepszik r\u00e1nk, ez\u00e9rt nyomor\u00edt meg, ez\u00e9rt \u00f6l meg.<\/p>\n

Ha valaki elt\u00f6ri a l\u00e1b\u00e1t, az rossz. Milyen j\u00f3 lehet egy l\u00e1bt\u00f6r\u00e9sben? Valamit meg tudunk \u00faszni \u00e1ltala. P\u00e9ld\u00e1ul nem kell elmenn\u00fcnk dolgozni, nem kell tal\u00e1lkoznunk valakivel, nem kell r\u00e9szt venn\u00fcnk valamiben, mert van egy felment\u0151 k\u00e1rty\u00e1nk: elt\u00f6rt a l\u00e1bunk. Ez a j\u00f3 a t\u00f6r\u00e9sben.<\/p>\n

Ha valaki elad\u00f3sodott, az rossz. Milyen j\u00f3 lehet benne? Mit tudunk meg\u00faszni \u00e1ltala? Mib\u0151l tudjuk kivonni magunkat miatta? P\u00e9ld\u00e1ul nem kell k\u00f6lcs\u00f6nadnunk senkinek, nem kell belev\u00e1gnunk valami kock\u00e1zatosba, \u00faj v\u00e1llalkoz\u00e1sba, \u00faj \u00e9letbe, nem kell foglalkoznunk egy sokkal nagyobb probl\u00e9m\u00e1val, mert van egy felment\u0151k\u00e1rty\u00e1nk: el vagyunk ad\u00f3sodva. Ez a j\u00f3 a tartoz\u00e1sban.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1rmilyen rosszat vizsg\u00e1lunk is, tal\u00e1lni fogunk benne valami j\u00f3t, olyan \u00e9rtelemben, hogy valamib\u0151l ki tudunk maradni miatta, meg tudunk \u00faszni valamit, el tudunk ker\u00fclni valamit.<\/p>\n

A penge \u00e9l\u00e9n t\u00e1ncolunk, amikor a rosszat valami j\u00f3ra haszn\u00e1ljuk. N\u00e9ha neh\u00e9z felfedezni, hogy abban a rosszban, amiben nyakig benne vagyunk, mi az a j\u00f3, ami\u00e9rt ragaszkodunk hozz\u00e1, de az ott van, m\u00e9g akkor is, ha ez kezdetben elk\u00e9pzelhetetlen.<\/p>\n

Ahhoz, hogy a rosszt\u00f3l megszabaduljunk, tudnunk kell, mi a j\u00f3 benne, ami\u00e9rt ragaszkodunk hozz\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Err\u0151l sz\u00f3l az Amer \u00e9s a j\u00e1tszm\u00e1k<\/a><\/strong><\/span>. A k\u00f6nyv \u00e9pp megj\u00f6tt a nyomd\u00e1b\u00f3l.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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