{"id":3895,"date":"2014-06-05T18:54:34","date_gmt":"2014-06-05T17:54:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/duncanshelley.com\/?p=3895"},"modified":"2023-05-16T23:28:47","modified_gmt":"2023-05-16T21:28:47","slug":"mire-vagynak-a-nok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duncanshelley.com\/en\/mire-vagynak-a-nok\/","title":{"rendered":"Mire v\u00e1gynak a n\u0151k"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Nemr\u00e9g olvastam egy cikket, amivel tal\u00e1n ti is tal\u00e1lkoztatok. Egy huszonk\u00e9t \u00e9ves fick\u00f3 vide\u00f3kat t\u00f6lt\u00f6tt fel a youtube-ra, melyben n\u0151gy\u0171l\u00f6let\u00e9t ecsetelte, majd \u00e1mokfut\u00e1sba kezdett: kocsija ablak\u00e1b\u00f3l l\u00f6v\u00f6ld\u00f6z\u00f6tt, meg\u00f6lt hat embert, megsebes\u00edtett tizenh\u00e1rmat, majd mag\u00e1val is v\u00e9gzett. Vide\u00f3iban azzal indokolta a tett\u00e9t, hogy a n\u0151k csak a brut\u00e1lis \u00e9s a gazdag f\u00e9rfiakat szeretik, \u0151 egyik m\u00e9rc\u00e9nek sem felel meg, ez\u00e9rt nincs es\u00e9lye bar\u00e1tn\u0151t tal\u00e1lni, \u00e9s elvesz\u00edteni a sz\u00fczess\u00e9g\u00e9t. A cikket ITT OLVASHATJ\u00c1TOK<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sz\u00e1zsz\u00e1mra alakulnak sz\u00e9ls\u0151s\u00e9ges, n\u0151gy\u0171l\u00f6l\u0151 szervezetek, melyeket \u00f6sszefoglal\u00f3 n\u00e9ven \u201ef\u00e9rfijogi mozgalom\u201d-nak neveznek. Ezek olyan eszm\u00e9k\u00e9rt k\u00fczdenek, mint hogy a n\u0151knek ne legyen joguk eld\u00f6nteni, hogy kivel fekszenek le, minden esetben a f\u00e9rfi d\u00f6nts\u00f6n egyszem\u00e9lyben.<\/p>\n

Nyugaton \u00e9s keleten kev\u00e9s vall\u00e1s mulasztotta el megeml\u00edteni, hogy a n\u0151k alacsonyabb rend\u0171 l\u00e9nyek. Isten \u0151ket m\u00e1sodiknak teremtette, n\u0151nek sz\u00fcletni a rossz karma bizony\u00edt\u00e9ka \u00e9s \u00edgy tov\u00e1bb. Sokfel\u00e9 kezelt\u00e9k a n\u0151ket m\u00e1sodrend\u0171k\u00e9nt (sokfel\u00e9 kezelik \u0151ket \u00edgy ma is), a csal\u00e1df\u0151k d\u00f6nt\u00f6ttek helyett\u00fck, \u00e9rzelmeknek, v\u00e1gyaknak, c\u00e9loknak, \u00e1lmoknak nem adtak teret. Nagyon k\u00f6nnyen lehetnek ezek m\u00e9ly\u00e9n olyan p\u00e1rkapcsolati, szexu\u00e1lis probl\u00e9m\u00e1k, amiket nem tudtak megoldani.<\/p>\n

K\u00fcl\u00f6nf\u00e9le vall\u00e1si \u00e9s filoz\u00f3fiai tanokat olvasva sokszor volt olyan \u00e9rz\u00e9sem, hogy azok csup\u00e1n a n\u0151kt\u0151l val\u00f3 retteg\u00e9s, vagy a homoszexualit\u00e1s ideol\u00f3gi\u00e1i, \u00e9s semmivel sem t\u00f6bbek ann\u00e1l.<\/p>\n

Az \u00e1mokfut\u00f3 miatt nagy figyelmet kaptak az \u00fagynevezett \u201ehogyan kell csajozni\u201d t\u00edpus\u00fa tanfolyamok, melyek azt \u00edg\u00e9rik, hogy 1 vagy 2 nap alatt b\u00e1rkib\u0151l sz\u00edvtipr\u00f3 cs\u00e1b\u00edt\u00f3t faragnak. Mint azt a cikkben is olvashatj\u00e1tok, t\u00f6bb tr\u00e9ner \u00e9s \u00edr\u00f3 is megsz\u00f3lalt. Egyik\u00fck szerint a huszonk\u00e9t \u00e9ves gyilkos f\u00e9lre\u00e9rtette a tan\u00edt\u00e1sokat, egy m\u00e1sik szak\u00e9rt\u0151 (?) \u00e1ll\u00edt\u00e1sa szerint mindenkinek meg kellene tanulnia azt, amit \u0151k tudnak, \u00e9s akkor elker\u00fclhet\u0151k lenn\u00e9nek az ilyen trag\u00e9di\u00e1k.<\/p>\n

A cikkben eml\u00edtett eset sz\u00e9ls\u0151s\u00e9g, amire szerencs\u00e9re kev\u00e9s a p\u00e9lda. Eszemben sincs azt \u00e1ll\u00edtani, hogy nem a gyilkos felel\u0151s a tett\u00e9\u00e9rt egyszem\u00e9lyben, mert \u0151 a felel\u0151s. De nem tehet\u00fcnk \u00fagy, mintha az eset a semmib\u0151l ugrott volna el\u0151. Kics\u00facsosod\u00e1sa valaminek, egy jelens\u00e9gnek, ami l\u00e9tezik, ami megfigyelhet\u0151, amit el lehet fedni, amit be lehet s\u00f6p\u00f6rni egy k\u00e9pzeletbeli t\u00e1rsadalmi sz\u0151nyeg al\u00e1, mintha nem is l\u00e9tezne. Ett\u0151l m\u00e9g l\u00e9tezik.<\/p>\n

\u00dagy t\u0171nik, hogy a fi\u00faknak\/f\u00e9rfiaknak neh\u00e9zs\u00e9get okoz \u00e9rdemi kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3t folytatni a m\u00e1sik nemmel. Kort\u00f3l, kult\u00far\u00e1t\u00f3l f\u00fcggetlen\u00fcl. L\u00e1thatjuk, vall\u00e1sok, filoz\u00f3fi\u00e1k, politikai \u00e9s gazdas\u00e1gi mozgalmak sz\u00fclettek \u00e9s terjedtek el e probl\u00e9ma miatt. (A l\u00e1nyoknak\/n\u0151knek ugyanilyen neh\u00e9z \u00e9rdemi kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3t folytatni a f\u00e9rfiakkal, de ez valami\u00e9rt kev\u00e9sb\u00e9 hagyta lenyomat\u00e1t a t\u00f6rt\u00e9nelmen.)<\/p>\n

Mit gondoltok, mi\u00e9rt l\u00e9tezik ez a probl\u00e9ma? Mi az oka, mi az alapja? Hogyan lehetne megoldani? Van valami a jelenlegi t\u00e1rsadalomban, ami kedvez a n\u0151kkel szembeni sz\u00e9ls\u0151s\u00e9ges eszm\u00e9knek \u00e9s mozgalmaknak?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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