{"id":2276,"date":"2012-08-15T12:09:10","date_gmt":"2012-08-15T11:09:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/duncanshelley.com\/?p=2276"},"modified":"2023-05-16T19:08:56","modified_gmt":"2023-05-16T17:08:56","slug":"belenk-ultetett-emlekek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duncanshelley.com\/en\/belenk-ultetett-emlekek\/","title":{"rendered":"Bel\u00e9nk \u00fcltetett eml\u00e9kek"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Az \u00e1rtatlan, aki gyilkosnak hiszi mag\u00e1t, a gyilkos, aki \u00e1rtatlannak...<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Milyen kapcsolatban van a m\u00faltunk a jelen\u00fcnkkel, ami minket, embereket, lelkeket, tudatokat, szellemi l\u00e9nyeket illet? Milyen kapcsolatban van a m\u00faltunk a jelenben l\u00e9tez\u0151 szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g\u00fcnkkel? A m\u00falt mennyire hat\u00e1roz, mennyire hat\u00e1rozhat meg minket?<\/p>\n

A szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g egy folyamatosan fenntartott reakci\u00f3 a m\u00faltra. Ezen t\u00e9tel szerint a szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9gjegyeink m\u00faltunk egyes esem\u00e9nyeib\u0151l levont tudatos k\u00f6vetkeztet\u00e9sekb\u0151l, vagy \u00f6ntudatlan reakci\u00f3kb\u00f3l sz\u00fclettek.<\/p>\n

Egy l\u00e1ny, aki a l\u00e1mpal\u00e1zt\u00f3l k\u00e9ptelen ki\u00e1llni a sz\u00ednpadra, \u00e9s k\u00e9ptelen erre ma, \u00e9s k\u00e9ptelen erre holnap, \u00e9s k\u00e9ptelen erre k\u00e9t h\u00f3nap m\u00falva \u00e9s t\u00edz \u00e9v m\u00falva is, valamilyen m\u00faltbeli esem\u00e9nyre reag\u00e1l a l\u00e1mpal\u00e1zzal. A jelenben nem a jelen k\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00e9nyeire reag\u00e1l.<\/p>\n

Mi van akkor, ha rosszul eml\u00e9ksz\u00fcnk valamire?<\/p>\n

Ismertem egy fick\u00f3t, aki elhat\u00e1rozta, hogy tisztogatja egy kicsit a karm\u00e1j\u00e1t, \u00e9s harminc \u00e9vesen fogott egy tizen\u00f6t \u00e9ve n\u00e1la l\u00e9v\u0151 \u00f3r\u00e1t, \u00e9s elvitte egy boltba, azzal, hogy visszaadja, mert gyerekkor\u00e1ban onnan lopta el. Vissza akarta adni, k\u00e9sz volt b\u00fcntet\u00e9st fizetni, \u00e9s k\u00e9sz volt elfogadni az esetleges feljelent\u00e9sb\u0151l ad\u00f3d\u00f3 kellemetlens\u00e9geket. Kider\u00fclt, hogy sose tartottak olyan \u00f3r\u00e1t. S\u0151t, kider\u00fclt, hogy nem is \u0151 lopta el az \u00f3r\u00e1t, hanem egy bar\u00e1tja, aki azt\u00e1n neki adta. \u00c9veken \u00e1t rosszul eml\u00e9kezett \u00e9s ette mag\u00e1t a b\u0171ntudat miatt.<\/p>\n

Velem is t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt hasonl\u00f3. \u00c9letem nagy r\u00e9sz\u00e9ben azt hittem, hogy \u00f3vod\u00e1s korunkban \u00f6cs\u00e9mnek \u00e9n t\u00f6rtem el a karj\u00e1t: lel\u00f6ktem a sz\u00e9kr\u0151l. Bizonyos okok miatt elkezdett javulni az eml\u00e9kezetem, \u00e9s r\u00e1j\u00f6ttem, hogy amikor az eset t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt, \u00e9n a szoba m\u00e1sik v\u00e9g\u00e9ben voltam, \u00f6cs\u00e9m akrobatik\u00e1zott a sz\u00e9ken, megcs\u00faszott, \u00e9s leesett. Amikor r\u00e1k\u00e9rdeztem \u00f6cs\u00e9mn\u00e9l \u00e9s any\u00e1mn\u00e1l (aki szint\u00e9n jelen volt az esetn\u00e9l), kider\u00fclt, hogy \u0151k v\u00e9gig j\u00f3l eml\u00e9keztek, \u00e9s sosem v\u00e1doltak volna azzal, hogy \u00e9n tettem, hiszen nem \u00e9n tettem.<\/p>\n

Nagyon sokszor \u00e9szreveszem, hogy emberek pongyol\u00e1n eml\u00e9keznek dolgokra, elk\u00e9peszt\u0151 t\u00e9ved\u00e9sekben vannak, vagy nem is eml\u00e9keznek arra, ami t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt. Ismertem egy fick\u00f3t, akivel komoly konfliktusaim voltak, mert tagadta, hogy \u0151 valaha is \u00fagy viselkedett volna, ahogyan \u00e9n \u00e1ll\u00edtom, ez\u00e9rt egyszer titokban felvettem magn\u00f3ra (ebb\u0151l m\u00e1r tudj\u00e1tok, nem ma t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt), ahogyan eszel\u0151sen \u00fcv\u00f6lt \u00e9s k\u00e1romkodik. K\u00e9s\u0151bb, m\u00e1s hangulatban, lej\u00e1tszottam neki, \u0151 pedig olyan megd\u00f6bbenten n\u00e9zett, hogy azt hittem, mindj\u00e1rt megbolondul.<\/p>\n

Mi van akkor, ha pontosan eml\u00e9kez\u00fcnk? Nagyon pontosan. De olyan valamire, ami nem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt meg. Az eml\u00e9kek m\u00e9gis ott vannak. Eml\u00e9kek vannak, de amit \u00e1br\u00e1zolnak, soha nem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt meg.<\/p>\n

Vajon lehets\u00e9ges valamilyen berendez\u00e9ssel, hipn\u00f3zissal, vagy valamilyen k\u00e9pess\u00e9ggel, eml\u00e9keket \u00fcltetni az ember elm\u00e9j\u00e9be? Lehets\u00e9ges szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9geket megv\u00e1ltoztatni, tudatosan form\u00e1lni, s\u0151t kialak\u00edtani olyan eml\u00e9kek be\u00fcltet\u00e9s\u00e9vel, amelyek soha meg nem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt dolgokat tartalmaznak?<\/p>\n

Van egy viszonylag r\u00e9gi, \u00e9s m\u00e9ltatlanul elfeledett film, a Dark City<\/span><\/strong><\/a>, melyben idegenek azzal k\u00eds\u00e9rleteznek, hogy eml\u00e9keket \u00fcltetnek az emberekbe, \u00e9s figyelik, hogyan v\u00e1ltozik a szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g\u00fck. Fogtak egy f\u00e9rfit, \u00e9s beletettek az elm\u00e9j\u00e9be egy eml\u00e9ket arr\u00f3l, hogy meggyilkolt egy n\u0151t. Nem gyilkolt meg senkit. De \u00fagy eml\u00e9kezett, hogy megtette. Az idegenek pedig figyelt\u00e9k, ahogyan menek\u00fcl a rend\u0151rs\u00e9g el\u0151l, figyelt\u00e9k, ahogyan k\u00ednozza a b\u0171ntudat\u2026<\/p>\n

Ha szeretn\u00e9tek igaz\u00e1n szembes\u00fclni azzal, hogy milyen hatalom az eml\u00e9kek tetsz\u0151leges be\u00fcltet\u00e9se az ember elm\u00e9j\u00e9be, akkor n\u00e9zz\u00e9tek meg ezt a kis anim\u00e1ci\u00f3t. Figyelj\u00e9tek meg, ahogyan a jelenet f\u0151szerepl\u0151je \u00e1talak\u00edtja egy kicsit a c\u00e9lpont eml\u00e9keit, \u00e9s figyelj\u00e9tek meg, hogy mi lesz ennek a k\u00f6vetkezm\u00e9nye ABBAN a percben, amelyikben a nem l\u00e9tez\u0151 eml\u00e9k megjelenik. A video itt \u00e9rhet\u0151 el: REMEMBER ME<\/span><\/strong><\/a>. (Angoltud\u00e1st nem ig\u00e9nyel a meg\u00e9rt\u00e9se.)<\/p>\n

A szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g egy \u00e1lland\u00f3an fenntartott reakci\u00f3 a m\u00faltra. Szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9gjegyeink m\u00faltunk esem\u00e9nyeib\u0151l tudatosan levont k\u00f6vetkeztet\u00e9sek, vagy \u00f6ntudatlan reakci\u00f3k k\u00f6vetkezm\u00e9nyei. A jelenben nem a jelenre reag\u00e1lunk.<\/p>\n

Az eml\u00e9kezet\u00fcnk pontatlan, megb\u00edzhatatlan. Elfelejt\u00fcnk fontos dolgokat, vagy t\u00e9vesen eml\u00e9kez\u00fcnk r\u00e1juk. Tal\u00e1n az is lehets\u00e9ges, hogy eml\u00e9kez\u00fcnk valamire, ami soha nem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt meg. Mindez alak\u00edtja a szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g\u00fcnket. A szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g\u00fcnkt\u0151l f\u00fcgg, hogy mire jutunk az \u00e9letben.<\/p>\n

Mi a v\u00e9lem\u00e9nyetek?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Az eml\u00e9keink meghat\u00e1roznak minket. 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