{"id":16381,"date":"2012-04-13T16:45:37","date_gmt":"2012-04-13T15:45:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/duncanshelley.com\/?p=1737"},"modified":"2023-05-16T19:12:24","modified_gmt":"2023-05-16T17:12:24","slug":"az-eletkedv-luxus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duncanshelley.com\/en\/az-eletkedv-luxus\/","title":{"rendered":"Az \u00e9letkedv luxus"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Fogaskerekek, homok n\u00e9lk\u00fcl<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p>\n

\u00c1ltal\u00e1nos iskola hetedik oszt\u00e1ly\u00e1ban, f\u00e9l\u00e9vhez k\u00f6zeledve, az oszt\u00e1lyf\u0151n\u00f6k k\u00fcl\u00f6n\u00f6s feladatot adott nek\u00fcnk: fogalmaz\u00e1st kellett \u00edrnunk arr\u00f3l, hogyan fogunk \u00e9lni t\u00edz \u00e9v m\u00falva. Ezzel a dolgozattal vezette be a p\u00e1lyav\u00e1laszt\u00e1s t\u00e9m\u00e1j\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

Az oszt\u00e1lyt\u00e1rsaim t\u00f6bbs\u00e9g\u00e9nek halv\u00e1ny fogalma sem volt arr\u00f3l, mit akar csin\u00e1lni, \u00edgy el\u0151ker\u00fcltek a k\u00f6zhelyek, a biztos munkahely, a gy\u00e1r, a tan\u00e1ri p\u00e1lya, a csal\u00e1d, gyereknevel\u00e9s. \u00c9n kettest kaptam a fogalmaz\u00e1somra, mert \u00e1lmodoztam benne, \u00e9s nem vettem komolyan a feladatot \u2013 legal\u00e1bbis a tan\u00e1runk szerint.<\/p>\n

A t\u00e9li sz\u00fcnet ut\u00e1n bekomolyodott minden. Oszt\u00e1lyf\u0151n\u00f6ki \u00f3r\u00e1n p\u00e1lyav\u00e1laszt\u00f3 \u00e9vk\u00f6nyvet osztottak ki nek\u00fcnk, abb\u00f3l v\u00e1lasztottunk magunknak j\u00f6v\u0151t. Hogy mi alapj\u00e1n? Egy bekezd\u00e9ses le\u00edr\u00e1sok alapj\u00e1n, meg a mindentud\u00f3 tan\u00e1rn\u00e9ni fejteget\u00e9sei alapj\u00e1n, aki j\u00f3l megmondta, mir\u0151l mi a v\u00e9lem\u00e9nye. Otthon hasonl\u00f3 elgondol\u00e1sok v\u00e1rtak minket. Aki csak tehette, apa vagy anya szakm\u00e1j\u00e1t v\u00e1lasztotta, vagy az irigyelt rokon szakm\u00e1j\u00e1t, vagy a mindentud\u00f3 tan\u00e1rn\u00e9ni r\u00f6geszm\u00e9it k\u00f6vetve l\u00e9pett olyan \u00fatra, amir\u0151l semmit sem tudott.<\/p>\n

Divatszakm\u00e1k alighanem mindig l\u00e9teztek, \u00e9s ha nem tesz\u00fcnk valamit, l\u00e9tezni is fognak, m\u00e9g nagyon sok\u00e1ig. Mire van sz\u00fcks\u00e9g? Pontosabban: mire lesz sz\u00fcks\u00e9g \u00f6t-t\u00edz-tizen\u00f6t \u00e9v m\u00falva? A j\u00f3sl\u00e1s neh\u00e9z mesters\u00e9g, f\u0151leg, ha t\u00e9tje is van, de a hossz\u00fa \u00e9vekre visszavezethet\u0151 trendek alapj\u00e1n m\u00e9gis tehet\u00fcnk olyan kijelent\u00e9st, hogy erre vagy arra a szakm\u00e1ra val\u00f3sz\u00edn\u0171leg m\u00e9g egy ideig sz\u00fcks\u00e9g lesz.<\/p>\n

V\u00e1rhat\u00f3an kelleni fognak p\u00e9kek, szak\u00e1csok, aut\u00f3szerel\u0151k, \u00e9p\u00edt\u00e9szek, hentesek, rend\u0151r\u00f6k, jog\u00e1szok, orvosok. Aki j\u00f3t akar mag\u00e1nak, aki k\u00e9t l\u00e1bbal a f\u00f6ld\u00f6n \u00e1ll, az bizony ilyet v\u00e1laszt. Hogy nem \u00e9rdekli? Hogy m\u00e1st akar? Ja, k\u00e9rem, az luxus! Bizony: az \u00e9letkedv luxus!<\/p>\n

Tizennyolc \u00e9vesen, nagy sportember l\u00e9v\u00e9n, kick-box VB-re k\u00e9sz\u00fcltem: nem m\u00e1sf\u00e9l \u00e9vem, m\u00e1sf\u00e9l napom se volt a katonas\u00e1g nev\u0171 boh\u00f3ckod\u00e1sra, amikor kiv\u00e1l\u00f3 \u00e9rz\u00e9kkel beh\u00edvtak. Akkoriban (st\u00e1diumt\u00f3l f\u00fcgg\u0151en) heti hat-tizenk\u00e9t edz\u00e9sem volt, a honv\u00e9d\u0151 szolg\u00e1lat m\u00e1sodik napj\u00e1n m\u00e1r \u00e9reztem, hogy gyeng\u00e9bb \u00e9s merevebb lettem. T\u00e9ny, ez a tapasztalat benyomta bennem a piros p\u00e1nik gombot. \u00c9hs\u00e9gsztr\u00e1jkba kezdtem, jobb \u00f6tletem nem volt. Katonai k\u00f3rh\u00e1z, pszichi\u00e1triai oszt\u00e1ly, ideiglenes leszerel\u00e9s. Tan\u00e1csra heti egy alkalommal elj\u00e1rtam pszichol\u00f3gushoz, hogy ne h\u00edvjanak be t\u00f6bb\u00e9. A hihetetlen\u00fcl v\u00e9zna n\u0151 m\u00e1sf\u00e9l \u00e9ven \u00e1t pr\u00f3b\u00e1lt lebesz\u00e9lni minden c\u00e9lomr\u00f3l.<\/p>\n

Elm\u00faltam negyven, lassan feln\u0151tt leszek, de m\u00e9g senkivel nem tal\u00e1lkoztam (hivatalos ter\u00fcleten), akit \u00e9rdekelt volna, hogy mi a c\u00e9lom, mi az \u00e1lmom, mi tart \u00e9letben, mi\u00e9rt \u00e9lek. Persze, olyannal sem tal\u00e1lkoztam m\u00e9g, aki hangs\u00falyozta volna ezek, illetve az ezekb\u0151l ad\u00f3d\u00f3 \u00e9letkedv fontoss\u00e1g\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

Van egy mond\u00e1s: \u201eAki kifog\u00e1solja a tanul\u00e1s k\u00f6lts\u00e9geit, nem sz\u00e1mol a tudatlans\u00e1g \u00e1r\u00e1val\u201d.<\/p>\n

Most jutott eszembe egy m\u00e1sik: \u201eAki f\u00e9l a kudarc f\u00e1jdalm\u00e1t\u00f3l, az nem sz\u00e1mol az \u00e9lethosszig tart\u00f3 b\u00e1nattal\u201d.<\/p>\n

Ti mit gondoltok a p\u00e1lyav\u00e1laszt\u00e1sr\u00f3l? Hogyan kellene csin\u00e1lni? Hogyan lehetne val\u00f3ban felk\u00e9sz\u00edteni a gyerekeket, fiatalokat arra, hogy megfelel\u0151 d\u00f6nt\u00e9seket hozzanak? Egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n: hogyan lehet j\u00f3 d\u00f6nt\u00e9st hozni egy ilyen k\u00e9rd\u00e9sben? Mi a fontosabb: k\u00f6vetni a saj\u00e1t bels\u0151 meggy\u0151z\u0151d\u00e9st \u00e9s tenni az \u00e1lmok\u00e9rt \u2013 vagy a mindennapok f\u00f6ldj\u00e9n \u00e1llni \u00e9s olyat v\u00e1lasztani, ami\u00e9rt p\u00e9nzt adnak? \u00c9rmes p\u00e9nz\u00e9rt dolgozni? Csak p\u00e9nz\u00e9rt?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mi\u00e9rt \u00e9lsz, mi tart \u00e9letben, mi \u00e9ltet, mi ad \u00e9letkedvet? 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